
Tips for your first date: what to do and what definitely not to do
**Preparation is key**
• Choose a neutral location where you both feel comfortable
• Plan an activity that allows for conversation
• Make sure you know how to get there and arrive on time
• Take care of your appearance, but stay true to yourself
**During the date**
• Be genuinely interested in the other person
• Ask open questions and listen actively
• Put your phone away and give your full attention
• Be yourself and don't pretend to be someone you're not
• Share personal stories, but don't overshare immediately
**What you should definitely avoid**
• Talking only about yourself the entire time
• Bringing up your ex-partner or past relationships
• Being constantly on your phone
• Ordering the most expensive item if the other person is paying
• Drinking too much alcohol
• Being late without letting them know
**Good conversation topics**
• Hobbies and interests
• Travel experiences
• Movies, books, or music
• Work or studies (but don't make it the main topic)
• Future plans and dreams
**Keep it light and fun**
Remember that a first date is about getting to know each other better. Don't put too much pressure on yourself or the situation. The most important thing is that you both have a good time and feel comfortable with each other.